Senin, 04 Februari 2013

Recipes for a Perfect Marriage


Dear blogger,
"Cinta sejati bukanlah perasaan yang membuat kita terharu biru, melainkan keputusan yang dibuat dengan sepenuh hati dan pertimbangan matang."
- M. Scott Peck, The Road Less Traveled-

I have read a book "Recipes for a Perfect Marriage" by Kate Kerrigan
(Publisher: Gramedia Pustaka)
These are some gorgeous quotes from that book:
  • Kecocokan: Ada atau tidak ada
  • Kompromi: Kita tidak selalu bisa menikmati gula sebanyak yang kita inginkan
  • Pengorbanan: Dengan mengorbankan sesuatu yang kita yakini, kita akan dihadiahi sesuatu yang kita cintai
  • Berbagi suka cita: Aku cinta pada saat memandang orang-orang lain saling cinta
  • Bertahan: Ketika memberi terasa sakit, berikan lebih banyak
  • Respek: Rasa puas diri adalah musuhnya cinta
  • Menerima: Menerima adalah langkah pertama menuju cinta tanpa syarat
  • Kesetiaan: Hadiah paling mahal yang bisa diberikan seorang laki-laki kepadamu adalah harga dirinya
  • Rasa Percaya: Tidak perlu harus merasakan cinta untuk bisa memberikannya
  • Komitmen: Kita bisa membuat komitmen atas cinta, tetapi kita tidak bisa mencintai tanpa komitmen
  • Kebijaksanaan: Tidak ada resep yang mujarab


I want to share my aunty wedding day :)



She is my precious aunty,
many people say that we look similiar ;)
Aunty Novy and me 


Blessing in the church


Groom & Bride
 Kim Filmer & Fausta Novy


 I give her a present
Voila~
The Wedding Cake!
I love decorate cake, and this is my first time to make a wedding cake :)
Someday I want to become an expert cake decorator ^.^
Amen ;)


I made it with full of love
I drawn brown tulip beside the initial name K&N
("brown tulip" is Kim's nickname from my aunty Novy:)



This cake is contain of three layers:
lemon sponge-white choco mouse-choco sponge-dark choco mouse-lemon sponge (cover with white meringue cream)
Yummy!


Prepare my self in wedding day:)
Make up tutorial by Michelle Phan (she is one of my fav)  -midnight luster-
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DBTd9qv_sJI


Grooming (mini dress and pump black highheel)


A little performance from my sister and me in wedding reception ( I sang "Aku Makin Cinta"-Vina Panduwinata, and my sister played the melody)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6xLW-ajxYXA


Me and my bestiest Tammy


After the wedding day, I have some chit chat with Kim (the groom)
(He was born in Indonesia, but he lives in Holland and can not talk Bahasa, so we talk with English)

He said, "Choose the one based on quality not quantity, your aunty has the quality for me."
"Don't be afraid to wait and take times until u find the right person."
He continued, "I meet many people in Holland and Australia, but it was surprise me that in the end I find the best one (your aunty) from the country that I was born, Indonesia! Now, I believe God has plan it, He plan for us the best thing in His way and His time."
"Love need sacrifice, like the kind of God's love, He sacrifice His life in cross, so love not only about happiness, in the bad and sad situation we must stay together with our partner."  
And in the last conversation, he said something that is sweet like sugar!
"When we still dating, I said to her although in the worst case she has alzheimer (the lost memory diesease), I will never leave her."

I wish happily ever after better than in fairytale for Kim and Aunty Novy!

Cheers! 
XOXO

I have watched Habibie & Ainun movie :)
The story make me melting like chocolate in hot pot...
Mr. Habibie find his true love, Ainun
Although Mrs. Ainun died, Mr. Habibie still love her ( moreover he becomes sick because of loneliness and almost crazy). Doctor said that writing is one from three ways to make Mr. Habibie is getting well. So, he write a novel about his love story with Ainun.

It's very touching me...
I love this song
...
"Cinta Sejati"
 by BCL (ost Habibie & Ainun movie)

Manakala hati menggeliat mengusik renungan 
Mengulang kenangan saat cinta menemui cinta
 Suara sang malam dan siang seakan berlagu 
Dapat aku dengar rindumu memanggil namaku 
Saat aku tak lagi di sisimu 
Ku tunggu kau di keabadian 
Aku tak pernah pergi, selalu ada di hatimu 
Kau tak pernah jauh, selalu ada di dalam hatiku 
Sukmaku berteriak, menegaskan ku cinta padamu 
Terima kasih pada maha cinta menyatukan kita 
Saat aku tak lagi di sisimu 
Ku tunggu kau di keabadian
 Cinta kita melukiskan sejarah 
Menggelarkan cerita penuh suka cita 
Sehingga siapa pun insan Tuhan 
Pasti tahu cinta kita sejati 
Lembah yang berwarna
 Membentuk melekuk memeluk kita 
Dua jiwa yang melebur jadi satu 
Dalam kesunyian cinta 
Cinta kita melukiskan sejarah 
Menggelarkan cerita penuh suka cita 
Sehingga siapa pun insan Tuhan Pasti tahu cinta kita sejati 

2 komentar:

Dominicus mengatakan...

It`s a good blog and info DD..:)

Unknown mengatakan...

Thanks so much dominic;) trully appreciate it:)

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